its kinda long but PLEASE READ i needd the ADVICE!

My ex broke up with me saturday night. I cheated on him. DONT JUDGE ME! JUS HELP ME OUT HERE. that night He said i cant and i dont wanna be with you. I got emotional i said i cant let go etc. He said you have no choice but to move on cause i mean what i say.
i might be EXPECTING..and YES it IS his.! he said we MAYBE can compromise in getting back together IF i am prego

We agreed with being friends. since sat. its now tues. since sat. we still talk as if we were toether. he still calls me at night and we sleep on the phone.night before last he didnt call but called early that morning wanting to stay on the phone. while on the phone for about 1 hr. he told me he loved me twice. he asked did i still think about him. and he said he wish that he could hold me. i didnt respond on that one. eventually i said ill talk to you later. later that day [which was lastnight] he called and we stayed on the phone. we slept on the phone. it hung up and he called back. just like when we were together
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last night when we first got on the phone he said why you didnt txt/call me today? isaid because i want to give you space..he said youre actin like we cut all ties. i said no ill start to txt you he said dont if you dont want to i said no i will..few mins later he said ”do you think we should get back together if you have a baby” isaid yes i wanna be with you and i want my child to have both parents…this morning he said i wish i was with you…i said back atcha.. he said why yu said it like that .? youre acting brandnew? isaid no im not. i just dont want make it seem that i really want him back BUT I DO!!!i just want to get him back. he even asked if i still loved him… i said even if were not together ill always love you. i asked him. he said the same.

my intentions were NOT to cheat on him! i never even thought about doing that to him! but it happened.

SHOULD I JUST GO ALONG WITH IT AS IF I WANTED HIM BACK TO OR BE DISTANT LIKE STILL GIVE HIM SPACE. im NOT GONNA TXT OR CALL HIM FIRST. but when he calls me should i cut him short or steady talk til we just get off the phone..?

I have a friend who recently got divorced she has two girls under the age of 9 and she is now ready to date. She asked me about dating and sleep overs when or if it is appropriate. Me being single without kids have no idea. When is it appropriate for her to have guy spend the night?

My ex and I were together for close to six years and recently split because a mutual friend got involved and started spreading lies. Doubt built in my head and eventually built in his, he ended the relationship and soon after, we found out what happened. My ex decided to stick to the decision because he saw our upcoming school year possibly breaking us apart due to busy schedules; his final year + thesis and me beginning graduate school.

After everything that has happened, he said he still wants to remain friends. We never fought- things were almost perfect until this happened! Because of the drama, he said he loves me but is not in love with me… even though it wasn’t my fault. He needed to block everything away and unfortunately, I was included. He told me come November/December, if we didn’t find someone new and our schedules proved we weren’t too busy for one another, and he feel back in love with me, there’s a chance of picking back up where we left off. I love the guy and don’t want to nor do I have intentions of moving on- he is my soul mate and I’m not settling. I know this for a fact!

Here is the tricky part. There is a girl lingering around in the background who is working way too hard to get in his pants and in a relationship.. and while I am never quick to judge, I do not care for her and fear he is going to get hurt. When her facebook was public, she was rude and always knocking people down, she hooked up with one of his fraternity brothers, tried hooking up with a second but he didn’t want anything to do with her and now she moved on to my ex, and lastly- she admitted to having a std. These few things make me disgusted and make me wonder what he possibly sees in her? On top of that, she is always the poor helpless victim of guys feeling her up. Don’t you think with her past, obviously she is doing something to ask for it. For example, you don’t sleep in the same bed with a guy, have sex and share with the world he felt you up during your sleep. I mean, I’m sure he felt you up an hour or so before that so whats the difference? And also, you tell everyone another brother felt you up when you were drunk, you knew what was going on, yet why did you keep returning back to his room 3-5 times that night?

A. I love him, B. I dont want to see him get hurt…. and C. Of course I want us to get back together.

What do I do?

Normally I would play hard to get, forcing him to miss me and crawl back in the past. However, I can’t help but to think that’s a bad move seeing he’ll never miss me with this girl always talking to him in the background. Should I move forth with the friendship, put the sadness away and focus on all happy conversations hoping he’ll fall back in love and give it another chance? Should I move on in general, despite not wanting to?

Lastly, I told him if they were to get together- everything we had would be gone including a friendship. Normally I’m not like that but knowing she had or may have another std disgusts me and there is no way I’ll be able to look at him the same. He deserves so much better, despite only being apart for 2 months away from me. I would def. say she is a rebound and a terrible one.

So, my boyfriend broke up with me on Sunday. He said he didnlt know what it was, he just didn’t feel like it was going anywhere. He told me that I shouldn’t look forward to anything happening between us in the future, but he still wanted to remain friends.

I told him that I knew he was going to break up with me weeks ago, and that I wasn’t upset. Just disappointed that we couldn’t work out. In all actauallity I was heart broken. I cried myself to sleep Sunday night, and all day Monday. Today, Tuesday, I wasn’t a little upset this morning, but now I’m okay. 

I read that there are ways to get an ex back. I would just like to know if it reall is possible, and what are some real ways that people have actually used. I really love him, and I want to at least try to be with him again. Just being friend will be extremely hard for me.
He’s 21, and I’m 17. But he thought I was 20 when he first met me, because I’m very mature for my age.

My friend is in a really bad marriage right now her husband has been known to hit her and be very mentally abusive. She came by today and ask me to go to her county and file for divorce with her because he has been taking a flash light and a gun and searching every inch of the house everyday like ten times a day. He is on drugs or something but she cant even sleep so she is staying with me for a while. What would be the best way for her to go about this she is scared that he will try to come over here and hurt her and my family. He is a pshyco andvery capiable of it. So my question is what should she do and can she file for divorce in a different county from where they live. Will a restraining order really work for her if she lives here. Please any advice would be great.
by the way he has no idea she is even thinking about the divorce and that scares her even worse
what scares me is i am afraid that he will come to my house and demand to know where she is at and if i dont tell him he will harm me and my family

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