So I’m starting high school and i see that there’s more girls which means prettier girls and of course that’s "competition" for me :l so what’s your advice with catching boys attention and dating
Thanks!

me and my ex girlfriend who i still very much love, got into an argument and broke up, and during that argument , she told me she was cheating on me. Of coarse i was very angry, and called her a "wh0re" and some other things, and i really wish i hadn’t. I was able to look past the fact that she cheated on me, and she said she was sorry for doing so, and i still lover her a lot, and i wanted to get back together, and i was trying to talk to her, and she said that i had really hurt her by calling her names. I gave her my deepest apology, and told her i felt like a real as$hole after i had said all that stuff. But the thing is, im bipolar and i cant really control my temper and i flipped. I just wish i could take it all back. Is there anything i can do to get my ex back? she told me she still wants me but again she doesn’t because of the things i said, and she told me she only cheated on me because she though i was cheating on her with this girl she doesn’t like, but i wasn’t and she just kept telling me to be with that wh0re, but i don’t her, i want my ex back, is there anything i can still do to show my love for her? or did i lose her for good?

I’m 20 years old. My ex and I were together for 3 years. We broke up last weekend due to the fact we’ve been arguing rediculous amounts recently, putting stress on both of us.
I’ve had time to calm down and to realise what i did wrong in this relationship, I know that given another chance we could make it work due to the fact that i do often get angry over silly things, i know now that this was wrong of me and i know what i need to do to sort it out.
We’re members of the same gym and we decided to go running together this wednesday "as friends".
My question to you: if we continue to meet up for the gym, then slowly hang out as friends, with me showing him that i’m not the old "oh i’m tired from work so i’m grumpy and will take it out on you" girlfriend that i was, and instead i’m the fun, less grumpy girlfriend i used to be, is there a chance i could get him back?
I understand that if it has a chance of working, it’s going to take time. I can deal with that. I just want to know if i have a chance?

Hi, I don’t know what to do, please help me. I met this guy, "M" about a month ago. He is amazing. Handsome, owns a successful business, so sweet and attentive to me. He flew me out to the Caribbean (where he lives), took me on his yacht to a deserted island after just meeting me. He told me that he really liked me. I have been going through a hard time, and even though he is great, I just wasn’t ready for a relationship, and I told him this. I went home, and he kept pursuing me. We went to Miami together, and had a great time. He told me he loved me, and wanted to marry me, and have a relationship with me. I decided that I wanted to give this a chance with him, and I told him so. It was his birthday weekend shortly after that and he didn’t invite me. I got very upset, after all, he told me that he wanted me to be the mother of his children only the week before. I lost my father when I was younger very suddenly, and that was why I had a hard time getting close to him at first. He understands that, and he promised me that he would never leave me. He didn’t have to say any of those things. He was the one telling me he loves me, and flying me all over. He started to back away after things got really close with us, and I responded by being clingy, and desperate. I yelled at him, and freaked out. I know that this was the worst thing I could do. I apologized, and told him it wasn’t his fault, that I could see him pulling away, and if he wanted to go that he was free to go, and that I only want what is best for him. He responds giving me excuses, and it kind of sounds like he is breaking up with me. He says that he doesn’t want to stand in the way of my plans, and that being with him would do that. He didn’t talk to me for days. I sent him a text a few days later to see how he was after a big storm hit his island, and he calls me baby, and is very affectionate, and responsive. The next day I tell him that I sent him an email, he says, "Okay baby…" still sounds very affectionate. I am not sure if he has even checked it yet. The email said that I loved the time we shared together, and that I know that I over reacted to the birthday thing, and that I cared about him, and still wanted him to be apart of my life. It was on a Friday, and I haven’t heard anything back from him. I really felt that we have a great connection. We had so much fun together, he really seemed like he meant everything he said. What happened? How do I fix this? BTW- He was broken up with by his ex of 2 yrs, and he told me they still talk, and that she had changed her mind, and was trying to get back together with him. He said he didn’t want to be with her again. Do you think he just used me? Help please. I am hurting so bad.

We are now broken up for 2 months . Yeah , and I’m still not over him . Believe me , I’ve been trying . I told myself I was better without him and that i cud find another guy . I put myself out there again around a month and a half , and three guys asked me out . I said no to two of them and said maybe to one. I started having a thingg with that "maybe" one . buuut it didn’t click . He was perfect , but it just didn’t feel right . I missed my ex . Too much . How we ended was a weird one . We were a great couple . People at school were jealous and wished they had our relationship . One night , we were just fighting through text about how he was getting obsessed over baseball and how it was taking over his life . Some things were said that hurt a lot , and well … he broke up with me . The next morning before school ? He wanted me back . We agreed to wait a week so things could calm down in school . EVERYONE was bugging us . It was impossible . The whole week he would tell me how much he still loves me and I said it a few times back , too . I couldn’t lie to him . He broke up with me on a monday , so that friday , I was going to ask him out again . But literally before I could , he yelled at me about a rumor that I was flirting with this other guy and did some stuff . HECK NO! I told him that and he said sorry after we fought . Monday came . . . I asked him out . He was surprised actually . Tuesday came and then Wednesday , he said he didn’t think we should go out anymore . Said we should still be friends . We still texted . Goodness . . . a lot has happened since then . . . this girl he started liking , him saying my best friend was hot , him hearing that I was saying things about him and getting mad about it , him saying he wanted to go out in the future , him saying he still liked me a little , that he doesnt and he does , that im better off without him , that he told himself he could live without me and eventually he believed it , that he said we went as far as we could , that he got bored with the relationship , that he couldnt make me happy , that i should be with a guy that would make me happy . This was all spread out thruout the past 2 months . Not all at once after the breakup . Recently , I found out he still misses me sometimes . . . I dont know whut to do . How can I get him back ??? Do I play hard-to-get ? Please don’t give me some crap online about "The Magic Formula to Love" or something that’s just a scam . And please don’t tell me to move on and that there are other guys out there , because I’ve heard it all . I tried believing everything people told me , and nope . My heart still wants him . I tried convincing him that he was the only one… FAIL . I tried telling him I missed him… FAIL . I tried ignoring him for 2 weeks and he did text me . WHAT DO I DO ? PLEASE GIVE ME A PLAN

When i give guys dating advice. Why i it when i mention "don’t put her on the pedestal" do i get thumbs down all the time?

Why don’t girls understand that dating advice for a guy is different because we have to do the chasing most of the time.

Have you ever been dumped or dumped someone, and then you stopped talking to them for several months, possibly hooked up with other people, and then eventually start talking again, and get back together with them?

Don’t answer if your just gonna say "ex’s are ex’s for a reason, never go back!" blah blah… I understand people have had negative experiences with their ex’s but I’m looking for those of you who had positive experiences, and got their ex’s back even when it seemed hopeless.

What are some good love songs about getting back together with your ex..wanting to give it a second chance? Still being in love with them?

Also, any love songs about regretting not being able to say or do certain things differently. For ex: Cascada’s "What hurts the most"

It’s just that I want other opinions, because they market this stuff to seem like its a sure fire way to get her back. Smoke and mirrors or do you have experiences that can help better than their advice does. Looking for honest answers please. (Do a Google search on "How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back? …Number one relationship killer) and let me know what you think.