its kinda long but PLEASE READ i needd the ADVICE!

My ex broke up with me saturday night. I cheated on him. DONT JUDGE ME! JUS HELP ME OUT HERE. that night He said i cant and i dont wanna be with you. I got emotional i said i cant let go etc. He said you have no choice but to move on cause i mean what i say.
i might be EXPECTING..and YES it IS his.! he said we MAYBE can compromise in getting back together IF i am prego

We agreed with being friends. since sat. its now tues. since sat. we still talk as if we were toether. he still calls me at night and we sleep on the phone.night before last he didnt call but called early that morning wanting to stay on the phone. while on the phone for about 1 hr. he told me he loved me twice. he asked did i still think about him. and he said he wish that he could hold me. i didnt respond on that one. eventually i said ill talk to you later. later that day [which was lastnight] he called and we stayed on the phone. we slept on the phone. it hung up and he called back. just like when we were together :(
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last night when we first got on the phone he said why you didnt txt/call me today? isaid because i want to give you space..he said youre actin like we cut all ties. i said no ill start to txt you he said dont if you dont want to i said no i will..few mins later he said ”do you think we should get back together if you have a baby” isaid yes i wanna be with you and i want my child to have both parents…this morning he said i wish i was with you…i said back atcha.. he said why yu said it like that .? youre acting brandnew? isaid no im not. i just dont want make it seem that i really want him back BUT I DO!!!i just want to get him back. he even asked if i still loved him… i said even if were not together ill always love you. i asked him. he said the same.

my intentions were NOT to cheat on him! i never even thought about doing that to him! but it happened.

SHOULD I JUST GO ALONG WITH IT AS IF I WANTED HIM BACK TO OR BE DISTANT LIKE STILL GIVE HIM SPACE. im NOT GONNA TXT OR CALL HIM FIRST. but when he calls me should i cut him short or steady talk til we just get off the phone..?

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Ok so he broke up with me, I’m not going to go into any details.
I still love him and I want him. He hasn’t been talking to me for 5 weeks now at all. I know I haven’t done anything wrong and my parents agree I’m the good one here.
But I want him back before I leave. Which is august. How do I get him back for the summer? Any ways of improving my look? Tricking him to get him back? Anything?

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My good friend just passed away recently and before she passed away, she had a boyfriend about half a year previously and they had a bad break up. Her ex just now found out she passed away and asked me to talk to her parents while he was crying. I told her parents and they said they didn’t want him around. How do I break this to him? I feel like it’s not fair and all around just don’t know what to do.

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Me and my ex- boyfriend broke up because of my parents. He told me he wasn’t going to have another girlfriend. And now he is dating my used-to-be friend.

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My gf broke up with me about a month ago, saying that she can’t do the relationship because of her entering university. She wouldn’t make a promise though, but said that she would like the chance to get back together. She just couldn’t do the relationship because she wasn’t mature enough to handle relationship and school at the same time.

I took it wrong way, bothered her with texts and fb messages. That scared her because there seemed to be new side of me that I managed to hide. I called her and everything. She said that part of her will always love me but she doesn’t think that it will happen. But she was under stress and wasn’t thinking clearly I could tell.

I was gettng tired of sending her messages, how it wasn’t really fair for her to treat my pain as new side of me. I also sent a message to her parents explaining and how I wanted to say sorry if I were to see them again. Then, I asked her if she wants me out of her life completely, she said no. Unless I want to. I sent her texts saying that that’s all I need. I can make her fall in love with me again.

Next day, she sent me texts. She is under the advice of blocking me completely. Her parents are mad and showed her the message that I sent them.
But she says that she will happily be friends, not sure if her parents are ok with it but it’s her choice, and that it’s honestly ok. She is passed it. She won’t block me neither. She said that I made things worse than when I sent her messages. She’s not the one who is upset anymore. She told me that she doesn’t recommend messaging her family in the future (She doesn’t like her stepmom and real dad much, whom she was living with)

I know that I ****** up. I know what I have done wrong. But I had to destroy my lingering hope and obsessing love by letting myself go completely honest and wild. Now I am free, ready to move on. I appreciated the moments that we had and how she taught me how to live. I told this to her.

I won’t contact her for like ever. Maybe saying Merry Christmas or happy new year something like that but I don’t plan to get her back any time soon. I am thinking more of long term waiting. I really won’t mind if she goes out with other guy. But I don’t think she will in anytime soon.

Will it be ever possible to get my ex back in the future?

Why does she still want to be friends though? After all the things that I did to freak her out and stuff?
Is she being indifferent? Did she completely forget about all the good times, memories and love we had because of all these?
Yes. I do want her back. She’s the one for me. I knew that only way to let her go was to do all these things and I told her that. I destroyed what I had in order to move on, was aware of the possibility of losing her forever. I learned a lot. I am moving on btw in a healthy way.

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I am in a custody case with my ex boyfriend for our son. Can my spouse serve the papers since he isn’t a party in the custody case? My ex boyfriend had his parents serve me and he lives with them, but just because they are not in the party they were allowed. Thanks this is in California.

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We broke up because his parents didnt like me, and we fought alot about trusting each other. We were in love and were planning on getting married and he hasnt talked to me since we broke up and thats been 2 months ago. Everytime i text or email him he ignores them. He pretending to date someone and idk why. Someone help me understand why hes ignoring me and pretending to date someone! And help me get him back!

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So I’ve been dating this guy for a couple weeks and we’ve gone on some dates and we text everyday. We practically act like we’re a couple cause I already met his parents and did stuff at his house and cuddled and kissed and yeah ANYWAYS, I wanna be his official girlfriend but and he said he wanted to be a couple eventually but I dont know how to ask him if we are going out now or if we will be soon. Help?

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I am moving back home and really want to start a relationship with my ex again bc i still care about her. When ever I am in town we will go see a movie or go to lunch. I cant tell if she still has feelings for me bc she seems to watch herself around me. How can I find out if she cares about me still and not ask her directly because i don’t want to make it weird if she doesn’t have same feelings. also her parents really like me does that help things?

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my parents ALWAYS fight over the stupidest things…like this night they fought -screaming fighting- at eachother because they couldnt decide on what to watch on tv……my mom does get annoying when she repeats herself but my dad is the worst,,, she’ll try to tell him about her day and he says COME ON GET ON WITH IT or I JUST DONT CARE……and he is never a gentleman….but hes sometimes funny……….i hate the fights and i wish they would just divorce because it would be easier on me and my brother….marriage with fighting is way worse then divorce with peace right??? help me out

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