My gf broke up with me about a month ago, saying that she can’t do the relationship because of her entering university. She wouldn’t make a promise though, but said that she would like the chance to get back together. She just couldn’t do the relationship because she wasn’t mature enough to handle relationship and school at the same time.

I took it wrong way, bothered her with texts and fb messages. That scared her because there seemed to be new side of me that I managed to hide. I called her and everything. She said that part of her will always love me but she doesn’t think that it will happen. But she was under stress and wasn’t thinking clearly I could tell.

I was gettng tired of sending her messages, how it wasn’t really fair for her to treat my pain as new side of me. I also sent a message to her parents explaining and how I wanted to say sorry if I were to see them again. Then, I asked her if she wants me out of her life completely, she said no. Unless I want to. I sent her texts saying that that’s all I need. I can make her fall in love with me again.

Next day, she sent me texts. She is under the advice of blocking me completely. Her parents are mad and showed her the message that I sent them.
But she says that she will happily be friends, not sure if her parents are ok with it but it’s her choice, and that it’s honestly ok. She is passed it. She won’t block me neither. She said that I made things worse than when I sent her messages. She’s not the one who is upset anymore. She told me that she doesn’t recommend messaging her family in the future (She doesn’t like her stepmom and real dad much, whom she was living with)

I know that I ****** up. I know what I have done wrong. But I had to destroy my lingering hope and obsessing love by letting myself go completely honest and wild. Now I am free, ready to move on. I appreciated the moments that we had and how she taught me how to live. I told this to her.

I won’t contact her for like ever. Maybe saying Merry Christmas or happy new year something like that but I don’t plan to get her back any time soon. I am thinking more of long term waiting. I really won’t mind if she goes out with other guy. But I don’t think she will in anytime soon.

Will it be ever possible to get my ex back in the future?

Why does she still want to be friends though? After all the things that I did to freak her out and stuff?
Is she being indifferent? Did she completely forget about all the good times, memories and love we had because of all these?
Yes. I do want her back. She’s the one for me. I knew that only way to let her go was to do all these things and I told her that. I destroyed what I had in order to move on, was aware of the possibility of losing her forever. I learned a lot. I am moving on btw in a healthy way.

How do you get your ex back if he has a new gf and you and him were together for 3 years almost and she and him only been together for about a week or two? How do you get him to come back to you? He broke up with me by the way. Always thought he could find better I guess.

okay, so i like this boy, but i dont wanna be bf/gf with him, i went out with him before, but he neevr talked to me and was always rly shy, we actually ended up in a fight and i ended up punching him in the face cuz of rage!!

now wer are so over that and we rly good friends. a while ago he told me he liked me and i told him too, nowthat im single i wanna go on a date with him this friday, altough idk if hell hold my hand or anything like i wanna, and i liek him alot! im not scared to ask him just he doesnt like showing public effection sumtimes. should i ask him on a date again? and if he says yes, should i tell him id like to at least hold hands?

I NEED MAJOR HELP!!
plz i need more advice!

No more games! I want my ex back! How do I do this when he is living with another gf! We have been texting each other and staying in contact with each other ever since the breakup – but now no more games -help and tell me how to get him back!!!

okay so im 13, and im in 6th grade (got held back when i was younger, im actually really smart :p) umm anyways, im sick so that’s why im even on the computer. i guess u could say im a really pretty girl, but i dont care what i loook like, and if guys think im pretty, i get asked out alot, but like i think the whole dating thing in 6th grade, is just plane old stupid, ahah as u can see im really mature,but, there is this boy, we r best friends, we got split apart, and he went to a dif school, and we wont see each other til high school. see, im inlove with him, i know im way to young, but, there is nothing compared to him, he cares about me, he seee’s what’s inside of me, he isn’t like most guys,most guys in 6th grade only care if a girl is "hot". but this guy, makes me smile. and my friends keep telling me everytime we see each other at football games, that he looks at me differently, and only pays attention to me, see, he knows that i love him, and he said he did to, but now he is dening that he likes me, he says im really pretty and that he just doesn’t want a gf.i can date when im 17, it depends how mature i am, my dad trusts me, he just doesn’t trust the guys, which he knows i will NEVER do what he is thinking, bc when i do somthing bad there is a big voice saying stop, and wont leave me alone. but he just isn’t compared to the other guys,i don’t care that much about looks, well looks come secound to me. but, i want to go out with him so bad. and i dont know what to do,people tell me all the time, that his best friend keeps teling my bff that he likes me. i just kinda wanna get over hium, but how can i? i tried, i tried to get a new guy, i did, but it turned out, all he wanted to do is makeout with me, like im like some kinda play toy, but im not ganna let a guy disrespect me. anyways my BF (best friend) said that the reason he likes me is that im beautiful on the inside and out, and, idk how, i just love life, the wind is soo beautiful, and just everything is beautiful, i love everyone,. but i dont get if he can tell one of his best friends he likes me. why can’t he tell me? i asked one of his bf’s if he liked me and he said he couldn’t tell. he just is a one of a life time chance. im just really confused, my friend tells me to follow my heart, and my other best friend, tells me she doesn’t want to see me get hurt, like my BFF malayna. and im really strong, iv watched him be with another girl, and at one point he was ganna leave her. but i just want u to give me ur advice, on what to do. thank u.

GOD bless you all, and remember to live each day happy.