From experience, what has worked the best, by the way this is for someone who has “lost interest” know what I mean? or well getting an ex back in anyway will help, please list which things worked best and which made things even worse, thank you very much ahead of time!

Do you find yourself asking the question: how can I get my ex-boyfriend to come back to me? It is terrible to find yourself in this situation especially if you did something stupid to make it happen.  Whatever happened between you and your ex, it is possible to get him to come back to you and to rebuild your relationship making it stronger and better than before.  However, this can only be done if you are willing to work at it.

These steps aren’t hard to do and they do work. There are thousands of people who have successfully used these steps to get their ex back.  The thing you have to understand though is that you will have to spend some time and effort, this process won’t happen overnight and it won’t happen unless you’re willing to put in the time.

If you’re looking for a quick fix, sorry, this isn’t it. But, if you’re looking for as close to a guarantee as you’ll ever get in matters of the heart, than keep reading…

Step one is to step off. Give your ex boyfriend a little space. If you keep texting or calling him than all you’re going to do is let him know you will be a back up plan if he doesn’t meet anyone else, you really don’t want your ex to think of you that way, do you?

Step two is to recognise your faults and do something about them. True, I don’t know you or what you’re like but we all have our issues and I’m sure you have yours. Those issues probably contributed to the relationship falling apart in the first place. It’s time you own up to them and take some time to change them. If you are able to do this you’ll be light years ahead of where you were before.

Once you’ve made some much needed changes to the way you act it’s time to call your ex. Don’t try to talk him into taking you back, just be friendly and casual and ask if he’d like to get together just to catch up. Once the two of you are together show him the changes you’ve made, don’t talk about it, let him see for himself.  If things go well give it a few days and call him again and see if he’d like to go out again. Remember, at this point the two of you are starting all over again, so be willing to take it slow and let him see that the changes you’ve made are real.

This advice is simple but very effective as long as you are willing to put in some time and effort. In order for it to work you also have to be willing to face some things about the person you are and be willing to make some changes. If you can do those things you will find that you have the answer to the question: how can I get my ex-boyfriend to come back to me?

I really really like my ex boyfriend. But the problem is he always pays attention my other friends who are really pretty and charming. They’re really girly and i miss him so much. There’s also this thing on his Facebook profile that says his ex is annoying. I don’t know if he was talking about me or his other ex he hates. How do i get him back? What about playing hard to get? What do i do?? Add lots of details and stories about you and your ex!

I want us to talk and try and rekindle things. i want my ex back
how can i do this.

my ex boyfriend still has pics of me up .. and he still has all the pics on his phone. he still reads the letters i wrote him.. but he doesn’t want me back .. so why has he still got all this stuff still . ( we split up because family reasons both together )
i have asked him and he just says just because we aint together i can still look at them nd read the letters. and i have asked him if he wants to give it another shot and he sed no …

You want to know how to win love back and get your ex to love you again.  Some time ago, he fell in love with you.  Now, for any number of reasons you’ve broke up.  So, what can you do to make him love you again? 

6 Simple Ideas to Win Love Back

1)   Take time to consider why you want to get back together.  If it’s just because you’ve got used to him, or you simply can’t be bothered to play the dating game, perhaps it’s time to move on.  Do you miss him or just miss having a boyfriend?  Are you really good together?  Do you get on?  Do you share common interests?  Do you get on with his friends and family?  You don’t have to agree about everything for a relationship to work, but if you’ve got a whole bunch of “No” answers in there, you need to think again.    

2)   Look at the reason you broke up.  If you became complacent and he tired of the relationship, you’ve got to show him that you’re ready to make an effort.  If you got bored and were unfaithful, you have to admit that you were wrong, tell him that you’re sorry and assure him that it won’t happen again.  Don’t ignore the reason why you broke up.  Learn from it and show him that it is no longer an obstacle to your being together.

  
3)   It will take time to win back his trust.  Take things slowly.  Give him all the time he needs to forgive you.  If you were at fault, he deserves to take all the time he needs to come around.  You have no right to be impatient.

4)   Be his friend.  Think back to what it was that made him fall in love with you the first time.  Can you get back some of that magic?  Are there things you did together, that you can do again?  Are there places you went to, that you can return to?  Take him back to the relationship you once had.  Take him back to the good times.  Make an effort.  Do something new.  Surprise him.  Do something just for him.  So what if you don’t like modern jazz, take him to a concert you know he will love.  Bring a little novelty and romance back into your relationship.  These things are appreciated by both men and women.

5)   Take some time to look at yourself.  Have you stopped making an effort with your appearance?  Do you always wear the same old clothes?  Do you always stay in on the same night and watch the same old programmes?  Are you not as much fun as you used to be?  Do something about it.  Get some new clothes.  Get a new hair style.  Get fit.  Take an interest in one of his hobbies.  Read a book and develop your mind.  There are lots of ways to show him that you’re developing as a person and that you want him to share in that change.

6)   Give him some space.  It could be that you broke up because you were too intense.  Everybody needs room to be on their own.  You may just need to step back and give your partner space to do his own thing.  Perhaps he has friends he likes to see without you.  Maybe there are things he likes to do on his own.  Be aware that ‘smothering’ someone is just as bad as not giving them enough attention. 

Look at your relationship.  Think about it and talk about it.  If you work together, you have a chance of being able to agree on what was wrong and how best to put things right.  These are just a few ideas on how to win love back and get your ex to love you again.  If you need more detailed help then you may want to consider the Magic of Making Up which has helped thousands of people to win back love.