Ok I know people don’t like reading long paragraphs
My boyfriends dad passed away and the week after on of his female cuzzan started chatting to him alot .It was anoyying because he was ignoring me like if she was his girlfriend and when I told him I don’t like him talking to that Sl* g. He got annoyed and said why you calling her that and swore at me for her and dumped me .Hes Gone another country for his dads funeral for one month and now its been 3 weeks since hes gone and he abit normal now and few days ago he came on msn and said Are we still together and I said You Left Me and then he replied saying "Ok if you want to go your way .If not your Mine"………and yesterday I said to him I’ve gt proof that your cuzzan likes you and who knows if you like her back and he said you dont need to know and I said Im not even asking you can like her and he said Be quiet and I didnt reply back

thing is I Love him But I don’t know whats happening please help me isit my fault or his and what shall i do when he come back next week to get back with him and make him stop talking to her because me and him been together for 3 years ! Thanxx for your time
Cuzzan = cousin
Im Not jelous because she actually loves him and she don’t even consider him his cousin

My gf broke up with me about a month ago, saying that she can’t do the relationship because of her entering university. She wouldn’t make a promise though, but said that she would like the chance to get back together. She just couldn’t do the relationship because she wasn’t mature enough to handle relationship and school at the same time.

I took it wrong way, bothered her with texts and fb messages. That scared her because there seemed to be new side of me that I managed to hide. I called her and everything. She said that part of her will always love me but she doesn’t think that it will happen. But she was under stress and wasn’t thinking clearly I could tell.

I was gettng tired of sending her messages, how it wasn’t really fair for her to treat my pain as new side of me. I also sent a message to her parents explaining and how I wanted to say sorry if I were to see them again. Then, I asked her if she wants me out of her life completely, she said no. Unless I want to. I sent her texts saying that that’s all I need. I can make her fall in love with me again.

Next day, she sent me texts. She is under the advice of blocking me completely. Her parents are mad and showed her the message that I sent them.
But she says that she will happily be friends, not sure if her parents are ok with it but it’s her choice, and that it’s honestly ok. She is passed it. She won’t block me neither. She said that I made things worse than when I sent her messages. She’s not the one who is upset anymore. She told me that she doesn’t recommend messaging her family in the future (She doesn’t like her stepmom and real dad much, whom she was living with)

I know that I ****** up. I know what I have done wrong. But I had to destroy my lingering hope and obsessing love by letting myself go completely honest and wild. Now I am free, ready to move on. I appreciated the moments that we had and how she taught me how to live. I told this to her.

I won’t contact her for like ever. Maybe saying Merry Christmas or happy new year something like that but I don’t plan to get her back any time soon. I am thinking more of long term waiting. I really won’t mind if she goes out with other guy. But I don’t think she will in anytime soon.

Will it be ever possible to get my ex back in the future?

Why does she still want to be friends though? After all the things that I did to freak her out and stuff?
Is she being indifferent? Did she completely forget about all the good times, memories and love we had because of all these?
Yes. I do want her back. She’s the one for me. I knew that only way to let her go was to do all these things and I told her that. I destroyed what I had in order to move on, was aware of the possibility of losing her forever. I learned a lot. I am moving on btw in a healthy way.

I met this wonderful fella we got on really well, after 7 months with him i found out my dad had cancer i am the type of person who finds it had to express my feeling so i held back from him,as we lived an hour away from each other we drifted apart, and then broke up we got back together for a week an broke up again i was sick of putting my life on hold for him, a month later i met him out he followed me around most of the night, i was talking to this gawjus fella an he texted me telling me he was trouble, The next day he texted me an in the end i told him to stop because he was making our break up harder, It’s been two months since we have spoken an i still can’t stop thinking bout him, i wish i could change everything, I think i made him pay for all the mistakes that my ex put me through.I have met loads of fellas since but none of them are him, Should i try an get him back! or should i move on…….help please

Is it possible to get your ex back if they are still engaging with you, but it still seems hopeless? How can I get him back? The ending was very complicated as his dad become very ill. I think he just gave up on us so he had one less thing to deal with. What can I do to get this person back? Is it possible? We talked about marriage and a family, a new home, all of it.
What do I do?

my parents ALWAYS fight over the stupidest things…like this night they fought -screaming fighting- at eachother because they couldnt decide on what to watch on tv……my mom does get annoying when she repeats herself but my dad is the worst,,, she’ll try to tell him about her day and he says COME ON GET ON WITH IT or I JUST DONT CARE……and he is never a gentleman….but hes sometimes funny……….i hate the fights and i wish they would just divorce because it would be easier on me and my brother….marriage with fighting is way worse then divorce with peace right??? help me out

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okay so im 13, and im in 6th grade (got held back when i was younger, im actually really smart :p) umm anyways, im sick so that’s why im even on the computer. i guess u could say im a really pretty girl, but i dont care what i loook like, and if guys think im pretty, i get asked out alot, but like i think the whole dating thing in 6th grade, is just plane old stupid, ahah as u can see im really mature,but, there is this boy, we r best friends, we got split apart, and he went to a dif school, and we wont see each other til high school. see, im inlove with him, i know im way to young, but, there is nothing compared to him, he cares about me, he seee’s what’s inside of me, he isn’t like most guys,most guys in 6th grade only care if a girl is "hot". but this guy, makes me smile. and my friends keep telling me everytime we see each other at football games, that he looks at me differently, and only pays attention to me, see, he knows that i love him, and he said he did to, but now he is dening that he likes me, he says im really pretty and that he just doesn’t want a gf.i can date when im 17, it depends how mature i am, my dad trusts me, he just doesn’t trust the guys, which he knows i will NEVER do what he is thinking, bc when i do somthing bad there is a big voice saying stop, and wont leave me alone. but he just isn’t compared to the other guys,i don’t care that much about looks, well looks come secound to me. but, i want to go out with him so bad. and i dont know what to do,people tell me all the time, that his best friend keeps teling my bff that he likes me. i just kinda wanna get over hium, but how can i? i tried, i tried to get a new guy, i did, but it turned out, all he wanted to do is makeout with me, like im like some kinda play toy, but im not ganna let a guy disrespect me. anyways my BF (best friend) said that the reason he likes me is that im beautiful on the inside and out, and, idk how, i just love life, the wind is soo beautiful, and just everything is beautiful, i love everyone,. but i dont get if he can tell one of his best friends he likes me. why can’t he tell me? i asked one of his bf’s if he liked me and he said he couldn’t tell. he just is a one of a life time chance. im just really confused, my friend tells me to follow my heart, and my other best friend, tells me she doesn’t want to see me get hurt, like my BFF malayna. and im really strong, iv watched him be with another girl, and at one point he was ganna leave her. but i just want u to give me ur advice, on what to do. thank u.

GOD bless you all, and remember to live each day happy.

Is it possible to get your ex back if they are still engaging with you, but it still seems hopeless? How can I get him back? The ending was very complicated as his dad become very ill. I think he just gave up on us so he had one less thing to deal with. What can I do to get this person back? Is it possible? We talked about marriage and a family, a new home, all of it.
What do I do?

My mom is thinking about getting a divorce from my dad in a couple of month. I don’t know what to think about it. I want her to get a divorce because my parents just don’t understand eachother, but then I feel guilty because I want my dad to leave. Have any of your parents ever gotten a divorce, and how did you handle it?

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