So, I dated this guy at the end of 9th grade, and I fell in love with him. Then I didn’t know I was in love with him, but now I do. Well, we broke up, stayed friends, grew apart, then at the end of 10th grade we started talking again and we went back out. This time I knew I loved him, but I was scared. Anyways, we broke up again after a while because I was having personal issues and we planned to get back together, soon. But we ended up breaking each others hearts and never speaking again. He graduated last year and I just graduated a week ago. Well, I thought I was over him a long time ago, I had a new boyfriend, he had a new girlfriend, we both lived our lives completely happy without each other. But then today I saw him and gave him a hug and I noticed something was wrong with his hand so I asked and he was explaining how he broke a bone in his palm and he took my hand and touched where the bone was broken to show me. Well, if you’ve ever been in love with someone, you know that they’re the one for you when your hands touch, theres just something there, we see it in movies, and we feel it. Well after all this time of thinking I was over him, he touched my hand and now I’m back to square one. I haven’t even thought about him in months. What do I do? Should I try and win him back(he has a gf) or should I try something to really REALLY move on. And how do I do so? HELP!

My ex-boyfriend and I are both in 10th grade. Our relationship was very short–we barely knew each other and I didn’t see it going anywhere, as we were both very shy towards one another. Fast forward a year and now we’re best friends–and he has a girlfriend. He seems to be flirting with me a lot, and rather than go into detail about all of the instances, can you guys tell me what signs would show up if he really did like me again?