How do I get my Ex back?
My girlfriend told me that our relationship has been getting too serious and doeosn’t want to see me any more. How do i get my Ex back?
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Here’s one sneaky tactic I learned from an online relationship website. It’s called:
‘The Magic Second Chance Letter Method’
Write a *handwritten* letter to your ex saying that you’re OK with the break up and respect their wish to end it. You apologize for any wrong doing on your part and say that you wish for them only good things.
You then drop in to the letter this line (or something similar in your words):
"Oh! Some good news! I had a fantastic change in fortune and luck the other day. Funny timing huh? It’s funny how, just when you feel everything is going wrong for you, something amazing happens. Love to fill you in…but in the future. You and I both need some space"
Your ex will NOT be able to stop wondering what you’re talking about. She’ll start to imagine you happy and doing well without her and suddenly your phone starts ringing and texts start coming in.
Don’t answer straight away. Stay aloof and like you’re doing just fine. Then send a txt saying "sorry you missed her calls but you’ve been [insert something that will remind her of something you both did together which was a happy time for you both]"
This will remind her of why you were together in the first place.
Here’s why it works:
1. Humans have a tendency to take things for granted
2. Humans will fight ten times harder to save from losing something…than to gain something.
3. Humans tend to want what they can’t have.
4. Humans tend to want even more…what is JUST out of their grasp.
I’m not saying this is right or wrong, just something that worked for me, and I was desperate!
Hope it helps,
Jimmy
Tony,
I bet you could get her back, but you’ve got to play it carefully.
First, she says that she doesn’t want to see you. You need to respect her wishes and give her some space. Don’t call her or text her for a few weeks.
Now, when you aren’t talking to your ex, you need to be doing things that keep your mind off her — hobbies, sports, whatever. You could even try dating other girls just to keep your social skills up.
If your ex has any interest in you, she will start calling you or trying to reach you just to see what you’ve been up to. She’ll be curious about you again.
This is your chance to meet her for a quick, casual date and impress her again.
Good luck to you!
Hi buddy
Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are great steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back.
all the best
spend some time apart and then start talking in a few weeks/months.
One of two things will happen:
1) you’ll get back together
2) you’ll have a new girl anyway and won’t really care
Why move backwards? Move forward. Forget the ex. Get a new girlfriend.
Change your gf as you change your dress . If she doesnt want to continue , why you should bother.
You can’t get her back if she does not want to come back.
If you really feel the relationship has a future, give her time to change her mind.
If she comes back, great !
If not, know that you should go on in your life and stay busy (see the links below).
Remember, you can’t make someone love you. They either love you or they do not.
Peace.