Ready to learn how to fix a relationship with your boyfriend? Little spats with the ones we love happen. And if you have recently suffered a break up with your boyfriend or feel you are on the brink of one, then let me share with you how to rekindle his love for you.

Once you understand how men think……it will be easier for you to get him to love you even more. Men love to chase woman and at one time he was relentless in his pursuit of your friendship and then your intimate relationship.

But somewhere along the line he lost the feeling he was still chasing you. When this happened to your boyfriend, he started to feel like you were no longer the desired woman he needed. It is the main reason most long term relationships crumble. And it’s encoded in every mans DNA since they were caveman scrounging for meat to give their family. Men are hunters!

To win back his love, make him go on another hunt for your affection. Give him some alone time while you head out with your friends for some girl time. He will think you no longer want to remain with him and will wonder what you are doing. It will prey on his mind every minute of every day. And those feelings for you will be remembered and he will want you back at his side.

Once you flip the script and put the decision making in his court, he will realize he really did not want to lose you after all. And he will begin the process of wanting you back. Those lingering feelings he has for you will overcome him and you will fix your relationship with him.

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It was Woody Allen who said a relationship is like a shark; it must keep moving forward or it dies. I think this is true with one important difference. A relationship can live dead for a long time. Many people decide to stay in relationships that are stagnant or destructive. They have their reasons. Usually, their primary reason is fear, whether they know it or not. And fear is paralyzing. Moving through fear takes courage, a willingness to face the consequences, whatever they turn out to be.

In the final analysis, it’s a choice we make, consciously or not. Even refusing to choose, retaining the status quo, is a choice. Sometimes the options don’t seem very appealing. Life might be even more difficult without the relationship. Why jump from the frying pan into the fire? And then there’s the fear of loneliness. Even lousy company can be better than no company. And who’s to say someone better will come along? And, for those of us who can’t tell bad love from good, at least we have someone to love us, if you can call it that. For those who are willing to take the leap, though, and risk aloneness, how do you know when to give up?

I think that depends on how much the relationship is worth to you and what you’re willing to go through trying to save it. I maintain that there’s always something you can do to improve a relationship–if you can find out what that is and if you’re willing to do it. But you may not be able, without cooperation, to improve it enough to make it worthwhile to you. If you’re the only one growing in your relationship it can be boring, if not frustrating. If your partner wants the relationship enough to join you in trying to fix it, there’s no limit to your potential for satisfaction. But you both must be willing to grow.

And growth is often painful. Perhaps that’s why you haven’t done enough of it yet. Another reason might be that you didn’t know it’s necessary. Well, it is if you want to change. Even small changes can help a lot in increasing the liveability of your relationship. Assistance in this project is readily available from marital therapists and in book stores. Trouble is, many wait until it’s too late before consulting a therapist. By that time, maybe the love is gone and you just don’t care enough anymore to give it your best shot. Man/woman love is pretty fragile and, once damaged, can defy repair.

Also, although the information you need is readily available in your local bookstore, many people won’t study it hard enough to make any difference. This takes some concentration. If your partner resists your best efforts, you may be beating a dead horse and, you know, a dead horse just won’t pull. You will have to decide if it’s worth it to continue or whether you’d be better off alone.

Dr. Hugh R. Leavell is a Marriage and Family Therapist in northern Palm Beach County, FL. He is available for sessions in person, by phone or online. Check his website at http://DrHughLeavell.com, email him at DrHughLeavell@gmail.com, or call 561-471-0067.

In the first flush of excitement that comes with a new boyfriend, it’s hard to believe the relationship could ever become dull and repetitive. There is so much to talk about, and so many things to do, you’ll never get bored, right? Then suddenly you find your relationship has slipped into a rut and you’re looking for special things to do for your boyfriend to keep the interest and romance alive. Here are a few tips on special things to do for your boyfriend.

Make them a special home cooked meal; something that you know they’ll like even if it’s not one of your favorites. This is especially effective if you know they’ve had a hard day at the office and you can have the dinner ready when they get home. It doesn’t matter if you’re not the world’s greatest cook, they’ll appreciate the effort, especially if you set the table, open a bottle of wine, switch off the TV and really talk to them while you eat.

If he tells you he likes a particular perfume, make sure you wear it whenever you go out on a date with him, or on special occasions when a romantic evening is on the cards. He’ll associate the scent with good times, and just a whiff will be enough to put him in a good mood. Similarly, if you are going out together, wear a dress that you know he likes. It will make him feel that you value his opinion and that you were thinking of him when you got ready.

Take an interest in his hobbies. You don’t need to become an expert (that would probably freak him out anyway) but if he is really into cars then ask about any unusual ones you see when you are out and about. If he’s a sports fan make sure you ask him from time to time how his teams are doing, and find out when their games are on TV so you don’t plan for him to do something else. Going along to the occasional game or race day with him won’t kill you, you might even enjoy it.

Men are more sentimental than they like to let on. Sending him an SMS at work just to let him know you’re thinking of him will make him smile without embarrassing him in front of colleagues or interrupting a crucial meeting. If you’re going to be away from him for a night leave a note on his pillow or by the bed; he’ll go to sleep thinking about you.

Suggest that he go out with the guys occasionally. This will get you serious brownie points as well as giving you some quality time with the girls. Make an effort to get to know his friends and their girlfriends. Even if they aren’t your kind of people it will make life a lot easier for him if you can all hang out together sometimes.

Plan some time away for just the two of you. It doesn’t need to be anything expensive if you can’t afford much. Go camping for a weekend somewhere that you know is special to him, take long walks, eat good food, snuggle up under the stars at night and talk like you used to.

Nobody knows your boyfriend better than you do, so once you begin to think about it there are so many special things you can do for him. They don’t need to be huge gestures, just something to let him know you still care and that he’s as important to you as the day you got together. All relationships take effort from both sides and finding special things to do for your boyfriend may have the additional benefit that he’ll find special things to do for you too!

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