10 Tips On How To Win Your Ex Back
Here we have some simple, basic pointers which should help you along the pathway to win your ex back. Some are things you need to do and some are things which you must avoid doing. If you think about it, even the ‘don’ts’ have a positive angle. Remember, this is not an overnight job. It will take time, patience and some serious self-analysis.
1. Do take things slowly. Impatience smacks of desperation and that’s not an attractive characteristic. If it’s worth having, it’s worth waiting for.
2. Do give your ex some space. No-one likes to be crowded or rushed. After all, you want him to associate you with good feelings like patience, understanding and an ability to stand on your own two feet. He can’t miss you if you won’t go away.
3. Do keep in touch. Opening up the lines of communication between you and keeping them open are fundamental to progress. You can’t get your ex back if he isn’t talking to you.
4. Do make it clear that you realise your faults. Admitting what you did or didn’t do, shows that you have given the relationship thought and that you are willing to change to put it right.
5. Do show him – and anyone else who is watching – that you are happy. Misery is never attractive. Why would he want to get back together with someone who is so depressed? Show him your upbeat, positive side. Let him see what he’s missing.
6. Do make an effort to look good. Work on your best features. Not only will it make you feel good about yourself, but it will let him see what a positive, attractive, confident person you are.
7. Do take control of your life and get on with it. If it’s obvious that you’re simply waiting for him to come back and start up your world, it will never happen. Who needs that sort of pressure and responsibility?
8. Don’t spend all your time wondering what he’s up to. Pestering his friends and relations for information just makes you seem desperate. Do make it clear that you’re interested but not obsessed.
9. Don’t spend all your time moaning to your friends about your loss. It will drive them away, as will getting them to find out how he is. Be independent. Do show your friends that your world goes on without him.
10. Don’t be miserable. It will bore and annoy your friends and will not show you in your best light. Let the world see that you can enjoy life even if he isn’t in it. Do try to enjoy your independence.
Showing an ex that you can get on with your life, as hard as it may seem, puts you in a good light. It shows that you can stand on your own two feet and enjoy life without him. This will make you feel good and make him feel less guilty, which is a good thing. After all, you wouldn’t want him to take you back because he feels guilty. You want him to take you back because he’s lost a bright, independent, confident partner. Be positive in your outlook and let him see what he’s missing.
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